A
difficult Mother–In-Law Situation?
Yes! You can Handle it!
I could hardly understand
the rush of words pouring out at the other end of the phone. Renuka was furious
with her mother-in-law’s admonishment, delivered in a superior tone of voice
and very disapprovingly toward her.
Direction, interference, disapproval, unkindness. She couldn't take it
anymore and had fought with her spouse because it was ‘his mother’. He was the
cause of it all, her unreasonable anger declared.
“Are you buddies other
than when you’re not getting along?” I queried. “Yes, when we’re not arguing
–which is rare” she admitted grudgingly.
Big mistake, I said, to her utter surprise.
She’s not your 'buddy'. The truth is that you cannot be ‘buddies’ except in rare cases, and
the sooner you begin to realize it the faster your relationship can flower into
a semblance of mutual respect.
Distance, mutual respect, space and formality is the KEY!
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