How Do You Handle A Painful Friend?
How do we handle a good
friend who often pokes us and pricks our
self esteem and prods us to confront ourselves in a manner that we would rather
not. Do we do away with the friend or how do we handle it all was a question my
friend Bingo posted on her facebook status.
-She seemed to suggest the friend becomes
a pain in the neck that we're better off without because she was at a stage in
life when she is fairly attuned to what she wants and has chosen to be. To the
many responses she elicited on her ‘wall’ the most balanced ones echoed my
belief strongly.
My life has been about
friends who have been part of my growth and metamorphosis, who have kept me
firmly grounded in a world where it is easy to fly away with your fabulous fantasy of yourself. A best friend becomes like a spouse, whom we have to navigate
and grow with. People are not like toilet tissue- you don't 'discard' them- you also allow them to know when they're being a
pain in the neck. You know, I've actually enjoyed the meanderings of understanding the ups and downs of relationships. You begin to take the good with the bad, as my good friend Tanaz so wisely said just yesterday!
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