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*Nisha Is A Columnist, Writer & Luxury Brand Consultant*Nisha JamVwal Writeshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14628975661969531419noreply@blogger.comBlogger150125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1619860491910268875.post-14097242667468374942020-06-16T05:10:00.002-07:002020-06-17T01:13:06.192-07:00Bon Voyage Sushant Singh Rajput <div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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<b style="color: #351c75; font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; text-align: justify;">When the world sees a happy, well-adjusted energetic person it might not be a reality. Perceptions are not reality however real appearances might be. Look at Robin Williams who made all of us laugh. </b></div>
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happiness also took his life in depression -makes me really wonder what
happiness is all about and how does one define and quantify it and more
importantly how do we find it in our lives? Is it a success and material possessions?
Can’t be! Or then Alexander McQueen, celebrated, loved and wealthy to the point
of excess would definitely not have taken his life. Could it be pain and tragedy
that cause a person to end their lives? I doubt that because pain and
unhappiness is part of every human beings life existence. Yes, I know,
depression and drug overdose are obvious causes, but in the first place, they
occur due to inadequacies born out of unhappiness!</b></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "tahoma" , sans-serif;"><b><i><span style="color: #351c75;"><u>So then what is the way out to grapple with pain, loss, and
suffering? I’d say the only way out is within. What comes to mind is a
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<span style="font-family: "tahoma" , sans-serif;"><b><i><span style="color: #351c75;"><u>–‘chasing happiness is like chasing a butterfly in
a garden. Try to capture it and it evades you. Sit on a bench and close your
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<span style="color: #1f4e79; font-family: "arial" , sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;">Depression, anxiety, and stress. The most insidious epidemic of our times that is said to be the cause for all disease today -even with the big ‘C’ - stress and anxiety are cited as the big causes. It surreptitiously makes its way into our lives before we know what’s hit us and we find we are the victims of panic attacks and low performance at work. More often than not even kids at school find themselves struck by this new age epidemic. </span></div>
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<span style="color: #1f4e79; font-family: "arial" , sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;">The rapid spread of this most common malaise is- believe it or not - loneliness. Isn’t that is the biggest contradiction considering this is the most ‘connected’ age ever. Social media even connects people from different counties and geographies as if they were next door and yet feeling isolated is a great anomaly of our times? Did you know that one in four people that die in India die due to suicide caused by anxiety, despair, lack of help, and the inability to reach out? Feeling isolated and the huge pressure of performance and FOMO overwhelm, cause dread of living, apprehension, uncertainty, and fear. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: #1f4e79; font-family: "arial" , sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;">Everyone has good days and bad days - there is no shame in feeling depressed and down. Why is there still a stigma with being unable to cope with the pressure? Having a ‘dark patch’ with anxiety, stress is like fever or a cold! Face up and fess up. I know from working with a lot of anxiety victims that pretending takes its toll. </span></div>
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<span style="color: #1f4e79; font-family: "arial" , sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;">Sharing brings caring- allow the breeze in and open up - don’t feel you have to always look perfect. Pretending is passé - the new age way is to be real, be you, come clean! Growing up is about acknowledging and sorting. Age is just a number. Whatever your age, fifty, sixty, sixteen, you always always have scope to ‘grow-up and fess-up’. <b><u>The greatest step is to acknowledge one's fears and feelings of inadequacy. </u></b><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: #1f4e79; font-family: "arial" , sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;">The wheel of fortune is not consistent and internalizing this is the beginning of coping and change from within. We need to take it all with a pinch of salt and look at the big picture in life. What is most important is that if you cannot counsel yourself and cannot cope - then the most important thing is to reach out. It could also be just a hormonal change or some chemical imbalance that could be dealt with medically? <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: #1f4e79; font-family: "arial" , sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;">Neerja Birla who is the founder of a mental health care facility Mpower is a flagbearer of dealing with stress and reaching out for help. Her fight is to create awareness and spread information about mental illness, and she works tirelessly to dispel misconceptions about mental health issues. Just like you can have diabetes or incontinence you can have anxiety, stress, and panic attacks. “<i><b>We need to immediately red flag issues and understand that it’s ok not to be ok! I always stress upon parents and friends to listen to their kids and peers in a very non-judgemental way</b></i>” she avers and you can see that this is her greatest passion as she shares her thoughts. It was her own tryst with anxiety and post-natal depression that led her to explore the avenues and support system available in India. She was taken aback to find very little in terms of support systems for people suffering from mental health issues and it was when she saw this paucity she decided to create not only support for mental health care but also the much-needed awareness on these issues. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: #1f4e79; font-family: "arial" , sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;"><b><u><i>Feeling left out or ignored is not unusual so don’t blame yourself for extraneous issues. Don’t be hard on yourself. I’d highly recommend reaching out in the flesh to a friend or member of your family then turning to social media as your coping mechanism.</i></u></b> </span></div>
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<span style="color: #1f4e79; font-family: "arial" , sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;"><b>The funny thing is we do the opposite when we are feeling low - we withdraw or disconnect and go into a shell when we feel anxious.</b> </span></div>
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<span style="color: #1f4e79; font-family: "arial" , sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;">This is when you have to push yourself to reach out and find purpose. Even attending an event to participate in can augment a sense of purpose and give you the much-needed dose of belonging to move forward. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: #1f4e79; font-family: "arial" , sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;">Finding support groups, reaching out to trusted friends, communicating and opening up and getting sound professional help is a great start to bring in the sunshine.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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Nisha JamVwal Writeshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14628975661969531419noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1619860491910268875.post-5243611052693143102020-05-14T03:36:00.002-07:002020-05-15T03:38:34.430-07:00An Interconnected Humanity #NishaJamVwal<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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director made a compelling point on her Instagram recently. This phase the
world is seeing- is not a global party of eating, partying, drinking wine, and
making fancy foods.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>This is not an
extended spa-cation at home which many seem to be mistaking it for. No doubt we
need to occupy ourselves fruitfully without contracting depression, but on the
other hand, we do so need to understand the gravity of this situation. Many
places in the world are actually running short of body bags for the millions of
deaths recorded and increasing by the day. It is indeed a somber time for
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<span style="color: #2f5496; font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif; mso-themecolor: accent5; mso-themeshade: 191;">We worry about our
loved ones and now through this crisis, we need to also think of humanity as a
whole and reach out with help. In our own way. I am trying to give support and
help to people suffering from anxiety and stress, and offering help for getting
logistics sorted for people who are at sea about testing, PPE kits, masks, and
procuring groceries. I am also working for the spiritual leader and motivational
coach Gauranga Prabhu to generate funds to feed four thousand homeless people
in the Wada area.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>What is it that is
your chosen path to assist at this time? Imagine how much easier we can make
this period if each of us reaches out, help, and do one little bit for humanity.
Our larger family? <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: #2f5496; font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif; mso-themecolor: accent5; mso-themeshade: 191;">When I see posts of
wine, food, work out on social media I cringe at the emotions that would pass
by someone’s mind who is losing a close family member to Covid or then losing
their own lives. Have we become such a selfish race that we are oblivious to
anyone else’s anguish or pain? That unless we are going through the
excruciating loss of a family member we will not realize the grimness of the
situation just now? In my lifetime I haven’t seen such a devastating situation
where no one knows if they will survive the next week. Of course for everyone
that is cognizant and aware, are ten ignorant foolhardy individuals who believe
that this is a great free extended holiday to drink wine, eat all the time, and
show off on social media about the ‘fun’ they are having at this time. Every day social media posts of wine, workouts, cuisine, and song to increase following and likes at
any cost and with this avarice and attention-seeking selfishness might not be
the way forward when the world is in mourning and the people who are losing
their near and dear cannot see their loved ones one last time due to fear of
contamination. Even last rites are not possible and are being conducted through
computer channels. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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you are immune to what is happening around you. Until it hits your life, if you
are going to be insensitive and unconcerned, you are heading for a very big
shakeup of reality. </b>There is panic and loss all around us and we absolutely
need to show sensitivity and reach out to help. All humankind is connected as
one super consciousness. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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I advocating fear, somber silences, or anxiety at all. Quite the contrary. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I’m not even saying stop your wine and food
binges or relaxation. I’m merely saying apart from your throwback pictures of
reminiscence, do have some sensitivity toward the environment we are in
currently. <b><i>Have compassion, sympathy, and reach out in some small way to the
suffering world. It is not currently a happy world. It is a world staggering
with the weight of a mammoth unprecedented pandemic of apocalyptic proportion
and formidable unpredictability. </i></b>Mankind that had arrived on the moon and is
attempting to go to Mars that has AI and robots cannot conquer this very tiny
virus that is even obliterated by some soap bubbles. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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friend or acquaintance say --"I’m so miserable, all the fear and stress is
causing strain on our nerves. I have had an altercation with my
husband/offspring/parent/friend/ employee and I’m sorry to admit I hurt them
with my words/ temper/ outburst!". Tempers fly when living cooped up with
each other. Anxiety and imagined future scenarios of corona and loss, make one
behave unreasonable</span><span style="background: white; color: black;"> </span><span style="background: white; color: #0b5394;">–and
creating unpredictable moods and fuzzy mental clarity.</span><span style="color: #1f4e79; font-family: "arial" , sans-serif; mso-themecolor: accent1; mso-themeshade: 128;"><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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QED? – <b>You are connected and the pain you cause leaves you with as much
discomfort and unease as you caused. </b>And it’s the same with feeling good. So if you
believe that hurting those who are currently suffering hunger, disease,
contamination, fear or just plain anxiety are too far from your current state
of holiday, food, relaxation, and lethargy, you might be wrong. This malaise is
all around us, all over the world, no one is immune, not even little children as
was thought before. Every day new truths come forward about Covid, and new
frightening realities reveal themselves about this insidious virus that even
shows itself twelve days after you have got it.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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even your dear friend's success are contagious -<b>there is a connected feeling of
shared happiness or sorrow in this world.</b> Please don’t count yourself immune in
this haze of wine, food, and song. The Buddhist says not just humans but all
sentient life is connected and my Lhasa apso pup taught me that first-hand. He
shared his bouncing joy and love and I was immediately surrounded by his
infectious euphoria. Were I in a moment of tears he’d come up on my shoulder,
smothering my face all over with his comforting licks. No dog lover will
contest the connectedness of all existence! Like we worry about our loved ones because
our innate being is conscious at all levels that we are one connected family,
so also <b>we must be concerned and show that concern for humanity as a whole
because our innate being is conscious at all levels that we are an interconnected
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this one, the society Chinese whispers had touted as the clichéd "</span><i style="background-color: white; color: #2e74b5; font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; text-align: justify;">Marriage made in heaven</i><span style="background-color: white; color: #2e74b5; font-family: "arial" , sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; text-align: justify;">". I
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love marry, it's for them at least, the culmination of their own
storybook romance. But there was this tale that was a much conversed social
affair. Some called it a match made in heaven. Surely, I thought, an
exaggeration, when I was attending one of the many “do’s” the
"love-bird" pair used to whirl through. But undeniably, the
husband was suave, handsome, known to be intellectual and could there be <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">anything</i> lacking?! <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Any skepticism left was quite swept away with
his charm and attentive courtesies when he spoke to me! The bride- she was
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forward to meeting them. Was I surprised? The handsome knight met me with
almost a cursory greeting as though he hardly knew me! But we had spent a delightful time over the conversation? I was offended, and although the beautiful
wife somewhat assuaged matters with her friendly hearty greeting and chat, I
pointedly shortened the interlude and moved away. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: #2e74b5; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; text-align: justify;">It is my personal experience, to
continue with a friendship or relationship with a negative person - who either
blames you, is aggressive at the rise of any miscommunication, cannot control
themselves when excited or agitated and is generally quick to misunderstand
than make an effort to understand- is a losing proposition. Contrary to your wishful belief, time, kids, maturity does not heal or improve manipulative aggression.</span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="color: #2e74b5; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">With a slew of only
good friendships and equations behind me, I find it hard to cut off a
friendship chord easily even when a relationship is not going positively. Part
of me always works at it to salvage it, thinking it a challenge in working
things and not copping out. But the smarter way to unclutter life is to weed
out these ‘toxic relationships’. Just like you edit your wardrobe and storage,
with every year of growing older, you need to edit life fearlessly in order to
become lighter and free up time for life investing pursuits.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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was yesterday that I stumbled onto an Instagram post by a cousin and close
friend saying</span><span style="color: #2f5496; font-family: "arial" , sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;"> that separate bedrooms for a married couple or partners who
choose to live together are a relationship bending route that shatters taboos
and ‘works wonders for intimacy and sanity’. I am mixed in my views about this growing
trend. The post speaks about how it also allows for hobbies, privacy, and space.
My first reaction to reading this is that the entire day most couples engage in
own thing anyway and that bonding is oftentimes only at night. Intimate time
together in a ‘cocoon’ like space cut off from the rest of the universe to grow
your relationship is time bond in the busy schedules a couple normally keep. So you have the entire rest of your time to
pursue a hobby or a preoccupation in a den or an office in the time away from
each other.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: verdana, sans-serif;"><span style="color: #0070c0;">Recently
I came across a case of separation for reasons that were jaw-dropping strange! As
I heard out this friend the case got curiouser and curiouser!! “Rishi,
let me get this clear", I asked, "You broke up because she
was just too darn nice and too much a wifey little thing?" He took great
verbosity and some time to get across what seemed an oxymoron when we’re
speaking matrimony! "You <o:p></o:p></span><span style="color: #0070c0;">mean you didn't want a wife who was a good wife
candidate?" I asked, understandably befuddled. Between the no-no's and yes
yesses and "not like that’s” what I deciphered was that a man can feel
differently toward an intended wife and a steady girlfriend.</span></span></div>
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caring-too-much girl, and the latter in a suffocating kind of way of being
fussed upon. I’d never have believed it, but there is a situation where being
loved too much can also be a problem!? Seemingly so! <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="color: #0070c0;"><span style="font-family: verdana, sans-serif;">“Listen,
there needs to be some fun and flair, and a little playful space. Even
uncertainty that makes for pizazz. Quit the blandness lady. I think I prefer
celebratory champagne over the goody-goody glass of milk.” Candid he was and it
was then that a well-known saying came to my mind- “nice girls finish last’!<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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around your side, shall I drop by for a cuppa?" I telephoned my friend in
the suburbs?" <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="background: white; color: #2e74b5;"><span style="font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif;">-I need the company, some advice and the strongly caffeinated cuppa!" She replied. I
found her bleary-eyed and disheveled though it was two in the
afternoon. "Got to bed at<span class="apple-converted-space"> </span><span class="aqj">four o'clock</span>. We argued and argued " </span></span></div>
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been philandering with that b-----* at that dinner, and he'd been exasperated-
placating, reasoning, and finally apologizing so they could ‘kiss and make
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are a contemporary twosome in a live-in relationship. What I learned was that
this sleeping at three and four I the night was a regular feature of their time together. And arguing and fighting? It was not necessarily about
perceived roving eyes alone! It could be some small thing that had not been to
her expectations or something said that conveyed wrong intent or anything amiss
in his demeanor that went contrary to her mood even. I gathered all this, half
by her own admission and the rest by insights that didn't need an Hercule
Poiret to decipher. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="background: white; color: #2e74b5;"><span style="font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif;"><br></span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="background: white; color: #2e74b5;"><span style="font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif;">Click to read the entire article-</span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="background: white; color: #2e74b5;"><span style="font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif;"><br></span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style="background: white; color: #2e74b5;"><span></span></span></div></div><a href="https://nishajamvwal.blogspot.com/2017/03/when-insecurity-raises-its-ugly-head.html#more">Read more »</a>Nisha JamVwal Writeshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14628975661969531419noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1619860491910268875.post-40459631657281397942016-09-04T13:16:00.000-07:002020-05-14T06:14:42.727-07:00Marrying Mr Moneybags <div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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on her hand. She’d just stepped off her Rolls Royce to join me to a reunion
lunch. It’s so delightful when you can meet a school friend and bond after
ages, the connect is sans all façade and pretense. So she’d really done well
for herself I happily commented. A tiny shadow crossed her face, and it wasn’t
long until she confided about a life with all the trappings and an okay
marriage but a marriage without much friendship, companionship, and shared moments of
fun, laughter, movies, foodie dates and even the sharing of some happy
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snidely referred to as 'moneybags' but I have seen the veneer lose its sheen
after a span of flashing the rock on the finger, the rows of Jimmy Choo’s, Prada’s
et al If money is the only thing going for it. You guessed it. Life can be
lonely, empty and dissatisfying when the only consideration for the marriage
has been money- as you look on at a laughing young couple surrendering their
monthly instalment on the 'Godrej' Sofa-cum-bed, having a bhelpuri dinner and
catching a bus home, because it’s the end of the month! </span></div>
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you if I loved you the first moment I saw you, or if it was the second or third
or fourth. But I remember the first moment I looked at you walking toward me
and realized that somehow the rest of the world seemed to vanish when I was with
you.” </span></i></b></span></div>
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of human life and raconteur in ‘<i>Dil Dhadkne Do</i>’ looks on as protagonist Ranveer Singh sets eyes on
Anushka Sharma swimming across the pool. She glances back and it’s a long
enduring moment as their eyes lock in a riveting awareness of each other. His
droopy eyes perk up as Pluto the raconteur takes in the palpably electric moment as he wryly remarks ‘<i>yeh pehli nazar
mei pyar hota kya hai? Kisi ko dekha, brain mei kuch chemical changes aye, nas
nas mei khoon ki rafter tez hui, sare badan mei lehare si uthne lagi. To dil ki
dhadkan bhi thoda fast ho gayi! </i></span><br>
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are very few words, it’s all about stolen glances and chemical reaction. <o:p></o:p></span><br>
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fact that mother and daughter relationships are infused with some ups and downs
and difference in opinion. But to take it to the level that Indrani Mukherjea
has done, is definitely a shock to all people that knew the family, however
distantly. Does that throw the relationship of a mother and child into question
where one looks askance at the purest relationship that a mother has with her
child? I think not. This would have to be a rare exception, with a mentally
imbalanced person who could kill her daughter in cold blood. And yet the
relationship of a mother and daughter is indeed layered and composite. The
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it all- cars, homes, friends who love him, looks, education just about
everything I can think of is so downcast? </span></div>
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<span style="color: #2e75b6; font-family: "arial" , sans-serif; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 107%;">“<i><b>It’s my wife, she’s always ‘offhand’
and nasty, nagging, and ticking me off, sometimes publically to my acute embarrassment.
Over the years I find it getting worse. The problem is I love her and I’ve been
married to her for so long I don’t want to end the relationship.” </b></i></span></div>
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end of the stick in relationships? The emotionally ravaged and dependent underdogs
are not always women, as feminists would have us believe. I have been
observing the tables slowly turning, with women becoming independent, assertive, and nearly like new converts with growing aggression flaunting their
‘rights’. But rights come with a responsibility- that
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<span style="color: #073763; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; mso-themecolor: accent1; mso-themetint: 153;">Jiah Khan committed
suicide some years ago. </span><br>
<span style="color: #073763; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; mso-themecolor: accent1; mso-themetint: 153;">I clearly remember the day attractive model and my good
friend Viveka Bhabajee had planned meeting me on Tuesday for a swim. Fun,
smiling always, slim attractive Viveka.
I never saw any expression of sadness or pain in her, even though we
spoke often and were fond of each other. She did confide her break-up with me,
but never did she sound defeated, Infact she started her own event company and
decided to work alone. The day of the appointed swim she didn’t show up and
just a few days later I was horrified to learn that she’d hung herself to
death. </span><br>
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compeered many corporate evenings, before which I would be backstage looking at
my cue cards. Nafisa was happy to
chatter ‘happily’ on the phone. Not long after one such event, I heard of the
eerie incident of her hanging herself. <o:p></o:p></span></span><br>
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kids says her kids are well mannered because she gives them stars on a chart in
the kitchen for good behavior. It is of the utmost importance to her and she
works hard on not only their performance at school but also good manners. They
get stars and stickers for being polite and kind and doing chores and being
helpful. When they have enough stars they go to a store and pick something out
within the budget she sets aside. This sets me thinking about politeness. Is it
obsolete and forgotten in the rush and bustle of today?</span></div>
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<span lang="EN-US" style="color: #2e75b6; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 107%;"> I look around me, and
even within me and see a great paucity of taking out the time to ask about
people, spending a few minutes in conversation before ‘getting to the point’
and ‘cutting to the chase’. The rush and hurry is all consuming in a
performance oriented competitive world, but trust me, politeness and care
count. <o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span lang="EN-US" style="color: #2e75b6; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 107%;"><br></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span lang="EN-US" style="color: #2e75b6; font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 107%;"><span style="color: #2f5496;">Click below to read on...........................<span></span></span></span></div></div><a href="https://nishajamvwal.blogspot.com/2016/01/good-manners-are-not-passe-or-uncool.html#more">Read more »</a>Nisha JamVwal Writeshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14628975661969531419noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1619860491910268875.post-86090805409945456722015-12-18T00:56:00.001-08:002020-05-14T06:21:31.174-07:00Learn To Enjoy Your Friends Success?<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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<span style="color: #2e75b6; font-family: arial, sans-serif;"><b>Maybe growth and maturity is the ability to applaud your friends. They will enjoy your success too! Positive brings positive?</b></span></div>
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<span style="color: #2e75b6; font-family: arial, sans-serif;">When a woman is able
to appreciate another woman, it speaks of self-assurance & inner worth- and
I don't mean pouring effusively. I mean
genuine heartfelt celebration of each other! Often people find it easy to
praise & be nice to a 'poor thing' or someone where there is agenda &
sycophancy. But to applaud and give credit to a triumphant and self-assured a person is not easy. No one is too big, too great, or too famous to receive
appreciation & genuine heartfelt acclaim and it is nice to appreciate and
say motivating things to human beings and to be part of their success. You can
encourage and bring out the best in your friend rather than allowing envy and
jealously take over which has the potential to form a dark cloud that bodes
poorly for you and your friendship. Positive affirmation and seeking out the
best in someone can transform their lives for the better. It is a power vested
in each of us to be that inspiring person in another’s life.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="color: #2e75b6; font-family: arial, sans-serif;"><br></span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="color: #2e75b6; font-family: arial, sans-serif;"><span style="color: #2f5496; font-size: 16px;">Click below to read on...........................<span></span></span></span></div></div><a href="https://nishajamvwal.blogspot.com/2015/12/learn-to-enjoy-your-friends-success.html#more">Read more »</a>Nisha JamVwal Writeshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14628975661969531419noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1619860491910268875.post-12117736709384540392015-11-22T06:32:00.000-08:002020-05-14T06:17:57.200-07:00Rare Are Those That Care. Life Beyond Herds & Hordes! <div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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Regardless!<br>
Ask Me, I Know...<br>
It busts your chops<br>
But<br>
<span class="textexposedshow">It picks up somewhere along the way</span><br>
<span class="textexposedshow">& you don't even know when & how it
happened</span><br>
<span class="textexposedshow">But you're sort of in the game</span><br>
<span class="textexposedshow">Getting the plot</span><br>
<span class="textexposedshow">& cracking the code</span><br>
<span class="textexposedshow">Somehow</span><br>
<span class="textexposedshow">Someday<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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rules and regulations, discipline- these were things for the older brigade.
Growing up I never felt that one should adhere to any regimen or rules. </span></div>
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I nearly bucked at the thought of such shackles in my life. And yet when I grew
up into life’s challenges I realized how valuable it is to work by some basic
principles like setting out some guidelines when entering a relationship. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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tiffs, husband- wife spats, mother-daughter quarrels father-son battles or
sibling ferocity! Some of the most love-laden relationships as these are, we
all know. But we also know that these are also dotted with the most painful and
hurtful moments, albeit often very transient. When they happen, good sense
seems to have completely fled out of the window. </span></div>
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by thunder and lightning. Attacks, allegations, bruising words, ego
clashes and even temporarily the desire to demolish the other, reign rampant,
leaving in their wake tears bruised psyches and wounded souls. Sometimes
the outcome may be enduring or even permanently disruptive. After the winds
have blown their course, anger does dissolve and the ego does float back to its
accustomed seat. Incredible as it might have seemed, love, hopefully, once more
prevails</span></span><br>
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what happened to all the love and intimacy of the run-up to marriage? It happens
to an extent (but not hundred percent)
in the Indian context where earlier generations viewed marriage as bringing up
children and attending to material advance and serious family business,
wary of the lighter aspects. Perhaps the times demanded it. </span><br>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 107%;">Some relationships are just so full
of misunderstandings and this was one such interaction. From the time I met Feroza
it had been one thing after another. And yet after a few years I found we had a
kindov good understanding and got along without a glitch. I </span><span style="line-height: 17.1200008392334px;">surprised</span><span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 107%;"> myself
and set thinking about how this had happened and what had transpired. </span><span style="line-height: 17.1200008392334px;">Wasn't</span><span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 107%;"> it
true that either there was a chemistry or then there were people you just kept away from because there seemed to be miscommunication and lack of a
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sniggers in the kitchen ~ " <i><b>bahot comedy hota hai jab bhi Madam party se
wapis aata hai , Saab to chuha ka mafik newspaper ka peechhey chhup kar baith
gayaa hai!"</b></i> ~ Rosie's merriment would have increased vastly, had she
viewed Madam Dudlani fuming smoke from her ears and jiggling her
prosperity-laden love handles in frustrated fury! Their entire NY luxury trip
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had turned a painful 'flop'! She'd waved her hands in all variety of
dance 'mudras' to display the rock sized adornment on her finger, with mention
of "Tiffany" at every drop of a sentence, the applause and envy she'd
dreamed of had been rudely upstaged by Silky Sood’s new silver-mauve
acquisition glinting brazenly in the drive. She couldn't pronounce 'Lamborghini'
but had that stopped her from tom-tomming reference to the cussed object? The
Dudlani's evening had turned murkily sour! Paul the driver summed up the
evening –"<i><b>Aapan-log much jolly! Ek Sunday mutton curry, ek Sunday chicken
curry, ek Sunday fish curry, ek Sunday 'aeig'-curry, phir salary- day and
'fiqar-not' ka bottle! Kamti paisa, kamti tension!"</b></i><o:p></o:p></span><br>
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It was so many years and she didn't look like she was in a hurry to get married, and wasn't getting any younger as you can imagine. It’s also sometimes a little
tough to be a girl in India, I mean there is pressure to marry early and how do
you hold out until you’re certain you wish to walk the aisle? These were my
thoughts as I reminisced the days before she had met her beau, as I sat in the 'pandal' (the wedding canopy) looking at Sudhanshu and Raageshwari. </span></span><br>
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doing the <i>phera’s</i>- the wedding
ceremony- at some two in the morning. We were throwing flowers on the couple,
and I was trying to calculate Rag’s age, 40 something I was guessing? So quite
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very lovingly as I know that the thought is well intended. I took relationships
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participated in Bigg Boss to give a boost to my career (Or so I thought) And as
fate would have it, my email and phone was flooded only with marriage
proposals. So I’m glad that people wanted me to get married and thought I’d
make a good wife. Now I’m happy to be The MRS</i> !!”<o:p></o:p></span><br>
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on charade, it is real. She's just what you see. No hidden meanings, no pretense, no affectations. If I was a man, I'd be in love! </span>I am completely taken aback- in a nice way-at her
disarmingly candid admissions. She's absolutely honest when she confides about life being a tough game of survival- survival in the big bad transnational Bombay and loneliness.
On her advise of how a young beautiful girl can survive through a city where loyalty,
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Facebook. Newly married- this ex television VJ unravelled a cornucopia of
knowledge about what a woman feels a man desires in her own mind and what he
actually gets attracted to in a relationship is very very different. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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big platform shoes, and expensive accessories, spending hours dressing up for
that special man. They crave flamboyant accessories like handbags, which are
actually a great put off in a relationship. Men find this superficial and
frivolous. The bag, overdone shoes, bling belt, short micro mini and big
cleavage only makes a lady look too overstated and ‘branded’. It is instead most desirable to retain that
fragrant simplicity, humour and conversation and let the chemistry and attraction
take its course. I’ve always felt and it’s been discovered by me over the years
that I’m right about men. They most definitely do not find layers of makeup or
layers of artifice fetching. Artless, unpretentious and spontaneous is most
gorgeous to a man and allows the relationship to proceed on real and natural
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Just like women are put off by boastful, braggarts in men, because women also
enjoy relaxed, unaffected and open men in the dating and mating journey. More importantly, a partner who is attracted
by brands and superficialities is also not the right person to look out for,
because their priorities are not you but the wealth you own. So on all counts
I’d go with the sincere unpretentious person for a date over the candidate who
shouts feigned contrived and hollow over a real person of integrity and worthiness.<o:p></o:p></span><br>
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<b><span style="color: #9fc5e8; font-family: Helvetica Neue, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;">"Poetry and light
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humans become exceptional with strife, trial and coming through tough times! " Nisha JamVwal</span></b></div>
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painful, and one feels wrenched. </span></span></span></div>
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it does not feel like the time to hear philosophy. We feel terrible and nothing
anyone might learnedly espouse works. Infact long lectures make you feel worse. You need space. Life seems awful and you feel like
socking anyone who decides to be holier than thou -giving you all this lofty
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life is like school. We come into the world to grow and deal and become into
better human beings and this can only happen when we pass though troubled
moments. Most painful of these being not physical pain but issues that stem
from painful relationships with lovers, parents, friends and siblings. Most
people do go through ups and downs in relationships, loss and pain. The smarter
ones learn and grow from the strife. </span><span style="font-family: "Arial",sans-serif; font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: EN-IN;"><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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