tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1619860491910268875.post8747844878746092404..comments2023-10-05T06:25:53.121-07:00Comments on Nisha JamVwal Writes: When A Couple Fight! Katrina Kaif & Salman Khan Aren't the only ones who parted ways!Nisha JamVwal Writeshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14628975661969531419noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1619860491910268875.post-42356275670688371192011-09-27T14:47:26.868-07:002011-09-27T14:47:26.868-07:00http://nishajamvwal.blogspot.com/2011/09/exploitat...http://nishajamvwal.blogspot.com/2011/09/exploitative-women-in-situation-of.html For You Joy<br />Do consult a Divorce Lawyer, I'd highly recommend Mrunalini Deshmukh or Mridula Kadam, both good strong women.Nisha JamVwal Writeshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14628975661969531419noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1619860491910268875.post-31065670634005266292011-09-27T14:16:49.404-07:002011-09-27T14:16:49.404-07:00@ Joy, I am writing a blog to address your concern...@ Joy, I am writing a blog to address your concern!Nisha JamVwal Writeshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14628975661969531419noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1619860491910268875.post-49577481721085292212011-09-27T13:44:51.457-07:002011-09-27T13:44:51.457-07:00@JOY I am shocked and perturbed to hear of your un...@JOY I am shocked and perturbed to hear of your unreasonable wife and family ostracizing you in this manner. I do believe the laws are very partial to women and women often take advantage of this.Nisha JamVwal Writeshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14628975661969531419noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1619860491910268875.post-47654748832357936592011-08-20T22:14:00.100-07:002011-08-20T22:14:00.100-07:00I have been separated from my wife and 45 month ol...I have been separated from my wife and 45 month old son for more than 2 years.Ironically she walked out because I got beaten blue and black without any provocation by her violently SCHIZOPHRENIC elder brother.Just because I chided her after coming back,she walked out,locking my defensless parents from outside when I was not at home!Subsequently despite the best of efforts I am not being allowed to either talk(on phone)or meet my son.Suggestion that we both go to a professional counsellor,was summarily rejected.So Nisha,what does one do in such a peculiar situation.When I got just one instance to converse with my beloved wife,her incorrigible Dad needlessly joined in,uninvited!But I quite liked your suggestions but then in my case I am helpless.My email id is wildwitty@gmail.comJoyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05702587337395196314noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1619860491910268875.post-83108678669698903122011-08-05T19:04:41.700-07:002011-08-05T19:04:41.700-07:00Well said.Havent we viewed a rowing team? some wor...Well said.Havent we viewed a rowing team? some work furiously at the oars, whilst others rest.then they switch. The zen too have a term: Zazen- not all the mystics are doing anything visible to ascend in a spiritual flight:)<br />The Upanishads tell us,In the beginning, there was the one in absolute transcendence. He was lonely, and thought may i be two, may i be many..and Tatasthu( so it is) that the manifest world came into being.If the purpose of such manifestation was to know ItSELF better,so too, each manifest soul yearns to know its transcendence , once again.and so i fully appreciate your infusion of the transience of life and growth into this post.so fulfilling!Each experience and relationship actually always helps us grow.One shouldnt cling, but under the huge big sky, there's provision for lifetime friendhips too..i say this especially because of being an admirer and imbiber of Shiva.And shiva parvati are the patrons of relationship extending beyond even the transient life itself:) cheers!!shail gulhatihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18203876595131174197noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1619860491910268875.post-53376686182136711172011-08-04T23:37:09.055-07:002011-08-04T23:37:09.055-07:00actually companions sometimes are there for longer...actually companions sometimes are there for longer and some are there for a shorter time, we have to look at each experience in life as an experience for growth and metamorphoses. Life itself is transient so one cannot cling to any one situation.Nisha JamVwal Writeshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14628975661969531419noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1619860491910268875.post-44075071291382737222011-08-04T07:35:03.367-07:002011-08-04T07:35:03.367-07:00Absolutely! life unfurls a certain clarity itself,...Absolutely! life unfurls a certain clarity itself,in all its scattered pieces..one by one the jigsaw comes into place.Its a real boon if one grows together with their spouse,its fun to have done things wrong, and laughed at our own anecdotes..and as we ripen, the jest is understood in its right perspective..:)Sadly, there are some who dont turn out so lucky, especially in the absence of a friendly and sincere guide..we, as the beatles would say, all need a little help from our friends to get by..so , yes, i think you could help a lot of people out there Nisha, go for it:) cheers.shail gulhatihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18203876595131174197noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1619860491910268875.post-77518815088127308822011-08-01T22:22:52.011-07:002011-08-01T22:22:52.011-07:00Dear Shail, You are so articulate and I am happy y...Dear Shail, You are so articulate and I am happy you've enjoyed this read, ha ha yes maybe I should counsel as a night job?<br />Life unfurls and with it we see our interactions and relationships with greater clarity that we did not understand to start with?Nisha JamVwal Writeshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14628975661969531419noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1619860491910268875.post-82666108162891876762011-08-01T18:28:33.215-07:002011-08-01T18:28:33.215-07:00A succinct and focussed write, counsellor! No yin ...A succinct and focussed write, counsellor! No yin withoug yang, no yang without yin:) Yes,just as the two find their own balance in the complement of the other, so too its best if a married couple balance out their tango with each other:)shail gulhatihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18203876595131174197noreply@blogger.com